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OUR MARITAL HEALTH/OWNING AND OPERATING YOUR OWN SEX CLINIC: FINDING OUT WHO’S THE MATTER WITH US – SEXUAL PROBLEMS AT HOT TIMES IN YOUR LIFE


At those times when we are running “hot,” when we are feeling hostile, impatient, competitive, and suffering from “hurry illness, “we are in a phase of what I call maladaptive hyperarousal. My interviews indicated that asking about how people were “running” in this regard led to more information than asking how their genitals were working. In “diagnosing” your sexual relationship, ask first if the two of you seem on a “hot” cycle of personal and marital pressure: excessive responsibilities, and feelings of too much to do in too little time, of hyperreaction and agitation.

If you are running hot, your neurohormonal system runs hot too, and the biochemistry of your sexual system interferes with your natural sexual reflex system. These are the hot problems that might result:

MALE

Seminal seepage (losing ejaculate without contractions)

Hyperarousal

Ejaculatory urgency (feelings of not being able to control pelvic contractions)

Shortening of refractory period

Absence of psychasms

Diminished afterglow

Hypersensitivity of F- and/or and R-area response

Diminished contemplation

Pelvic reflex addiction or maladaptive hypersexuality (loss of intimacy)

FEMALE

Skene’s glands or urinary emission without contractions

Hyperarousal

“Emission” urgency (feeling of not being able to control pelvic contractions)

Shortening of refractory period

Absence of psychasms

Diminished afterglow

Hypersensitivity of G- and/or C-area response

Diminished contemplation

Pelvic reflex addiction or maladaptive hypersexuality (loss of intimacy)

 

All of these “hot” problems are natural responses to daily living styles. There is no reference to lack of orgasm or psychasm in intercourse because the couples reported that coital orgasm was not a major concern. They learned to focus on their feelings and interactions in the general sexual relationship and the interaction between sex and living. They were trying to learn “who,” not “what” was the matter with their sexual life.

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